Some believe that it’s not the cheating s*x that kills a relationship but the lying, deception, covering up and sneaking around. So with that being said would you consider having an open relationship with your partner? Can you be in a healthy, loving, and self-loving relationship based on trust and respect when you both satisfy your physical desires with whomever you please? Are Open Relationships about reducing the possessiveness of relationships? Do they minimize the likelihood of partners taking one another for granted and they can revitalize the relationship with new energy? Are some people naturally wired to be with multiple people at the same time? Does an open relationship neutralize dishonesty and betrayal in a relationship?
Some believe that marriage is simply a construct created by man to legitimize children and to ensure the smooth passage of property and estates to heirs. Also, different religions have their own definition of what marriage is. It stands to follow that people can define what marriage means to them. All relationships are defined by the individuals involved. They set the parameters and the boundaries of what is and isn't acceptable and expected. If a person wants an open marriage then he or she should find someone who wants the same thing. Relationships are fluid. What works for some couples may not work for all. That includes openness, experimentation, and even wanting to be parents.
As humans, we are wired to want a partner in life. Usually that goes with monogamy, but sometimes it does not. It's not for everyone...heck, it's not for most people. I don't think you are conforming if you are monogamous, but it is sort of what people gravitate towards. It's the "norm", but it is also widely desired. While I personally wouldn't do an open relationship, I don't condemn others for their choices. Again, lies and deception destroy relationships/marriages. I believe the key to a strong marriage and good relationship is simple honesty. That being said, if it is an open relationship you want at least discuss this with your partner first! You never know! They might want it as well..
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